ok so you've decided to finally be a good girl and be consistent with your money goals (for the 100th time)...now what??
"I promise I'll get my shit together this time, Universe 🙏🏼"
This is not the first time you’ve made this promise. So, what can you do to make this time different?
Do you find yourself re-committing to your goals over and over again? Only to stick your budget or your [insert new money method that’s sure to work this time] for maybe a couple weeks?
And then there’s the shame and the disappointment that comes along with that.
Do any of these thoughts sound familiar?
“Ugh, I can’t ever stick with anything”
“Why does this have to be so hard?”
“I’ll never make $1M or reach my money goals at this rate.”
“What even happened?”
I want you to be successful this time, so here are my top tips, in no particular order, to actually change your habits and behavior in relation to money. Oh, and if you need support, reply to this email or comment down below. I can help 🤠
Can you reframe “consistent” with “devoted”?
This was a game-changer for me. Consistency? 🤮 I would rather parish then take on the pressure of consistency. That’s what it felt like to me: pressure, hustle, forcefulness. But devotion? 😍🥵 That’s hot. Devotion is delectable. Devotion is a spiritual practice. I can center on my devotion to my biz and to money every morning and move through the day with that anchor. Is this just the reframe you needed?Craft a vision of what “success” looks like.
Choose some tangible and intangible benchmarks to tell you that you’re on the right track. Some easily attainable wins (like saving your first $100 or leaving your credit card at home) can be motivational to keep going with excitement! Create a vivid vision of the life you desire to lead. Envision yourself in luxurious surroundings, basking in the glory of financial abundance but then try to quantify the steps along the way so your vision goes from being a feeling (definitely tune into the feelings) to being reality. Which leads to my next tip…Set temptingly achievable goals.
Break down your big financial goals into smaller, more attainable milestones. These bite-sized objectives are like little flirtatious winks that keep you engaged and excited.Celebrate each milestone you achieve, knowing that you're one step closer to your ultimate seductive success. I’m so serious about celebrating. Put your celebrations in your calendar, book them in advance so you have something to look forward to, and keep a running list of celebration ideas so you always know how you will treat yourself for reaching a milestone. Brag to me in the comments and let me celebrate you! Check out number 5. for more info on this.
Make it so fucking simple.
Complexity is your enemy ❌ Create systems and routines that seduce you into taking devoted action. Automate your savings, set up reminders for bill payments, and establish a sacred money ritual that excites you. Make success a no-brainer and if that means doing a bit of prep before you actually “start” then take a few days to get organized.Seek support and accountability.
Enlist a partner or coach in seductive financial growth. Find someone who shares your desires and can provide support and accountability. Share your goals, celebrate your wins, and hold each other lovingly accountable. Together, you can create a sensual sisterhood of financial empowerment.
Now is the time to embrace your role as the irresistible vixen of your financial journey. Be consistent, playful, and unapologetically sensual. Let your desires guide you, your systems seduce you, and your progress ignite the fire of your financial dreams. Devotion doesn’t mean perfection, so have grace with yourself.