my definition of hard work as a lazy pleasure hedonist

is your fear of hard work holding you back?

I don’t want to be afraid of hard work anymore. I don’t want the threat of longer, harder days to keep me from my desires. The anti-hustle, anti-bro movement has really ingrained a sense of fear in me around the terrible, awful "hard work" that it takes to be successful in anything. 

I see it everywhere - don't work hard, that's not in alignment with the divine feminine or flow. Don't push, don't pull, only sit back and attract.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with ease but the hatred of "rise and grind" has infiltrated my subconscious and has swung me to the exact opposite extreme. Where I'm afraid of things being hard or putting in hours of work on a project.

I find myself thinking "Be careful not to work too hard!"

Oftentimes, my number one fear of success is fear of having to work harder.
If I get more clients that means harder work to get them and harder work once I have them.
If I make more money that means hiring more contractors and delegating more.
If I create a new program that means hours of effort, creation, channeling, backend, etc. 

Ease and hard work don't seem like they can coexist…but as it is my "work" to challenge everything I believe, let's give it a go.

New belief: ease + hard work = pleasure

Here's how I see it 👇🏻

The truth is, I love that I work hard on my business. I love that I am proud of the work I put in. My hard work may not look like your hard work, but we both feel the same satisfaction at the end of a day devoted to bringing our desires closer to us.

There's nothing like a day of devotion to make me feel all tingly and satiated. I love feeling hella excited to sink into a hot bath so proud of myself for my follow through.

In fact, my hard work looks like taking mid morning baths, self pleasure, and writing smutty poems to money.

I pinch myself because I can't believe that I have built a business where I get to answer my clients on Telegram poolside and offer up my orgasms in service of pleasure and Eros.

My hard work is showing up every day. Damn that's fucking hard for me 😮‍💨

Ease, for me, is what comes after a hard day's work. My hard work (the masculine) creates an abundance of flow (the feminine). 

I get to decide in what setting I carry out my hard work. 

For example, right now I'm in a Starbucks sipping iced Chai typing this on my phone. The feminine part was choosing the atmosphere for my masculine dedication and consistency to feel pleasurable and erotic!!

Pleasure is harder than it sounds. Showing up consistently devoted to practicing. pleasure. Honoring what I preach, following through in hot and turned on ways…hard as fuck.

When it comes to doing the hard work around money, I make it easy. 

Ease + hard work = pleasure 🥵💦

✿ Doing my bookkeeping with something bubbly and maybe a little lifted 💨
✿ Doing my pleasure ritual with something salty and sweet and maybe a little lifted 💨
✿ Showing up and selling on my stories after a solo orgasm
✿ Creating offers while listening to some straight bangers that have me dripping wet

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Hard work becomes easy and ritualistic. Orgasmic and habitual. Erotic and easeful.

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