i invested $24k in my coach last year
let's talk about it
I didn’t have the money, let’s just get that outta the way right meow. These are my reasons & I’m sharing them with you because you may think that your reasons are weird or not good enough or too bold. We are the same, you & I. I have fears when I invest, too.
The biggest difference between us though is that I’ve learned to expect fear & make decisions anyway. Fear does not indicate that a decision is good or bad or right wrong. It just indicates that your subconscious isn’t quite sure if you’ll die, yet.
So, with that in mind here are some recollections about investing a ton of money in myself.
Why did I choose this coach?
The biggest reason I chose Amber was because she talked about money in a way that made me tingle. She values making money in all emotional states, she values pleasure, & she values honoring the dark and kinky aspects of us. I knew that’s the way I wanted to think about money and if she could do it, I knew it was possible for me too.
If you like (or even envy) how I talk about or think about money, that’s a great reason to invest in my coaching. If I have something you desire, get in my world!
What happened after I signed the contract & made the commitment?
All my fears completely disappeared & I immediately felt confident & at ease...
PSYCH
I was fucken terrified. I was convinced that I had just signed my partner & me into ruin. Our 3 cats & the two of us were going to be on the streets. I felt incredibly guilty & I even had shame around the investment.
I leaned hard on my coach. After all, this is what I hired her for, right? I hired her so I could learn how to handle & move through intense emotions around large sums of money. I never blamed her for my doubts & I fully believed & trusted that she could handle my doubts & fears around her container. It had nothing to do with her as a coach, & she held me beautifully. She has her own coach & received support if she needed it.
I had never done this before, actually. I had never let my coach know that I had doubts or fears lingering even after clicking the “pay now” button. I tell you what though, it was liberating. And I learned so much from experiencing those emotions, speaking them out loud, seeing her reaction, & being confident that she didn’t hate me or hold it against me AND also knowing in my heart that it had nothing to do with her really calmed me.
It eased a fear I didn’t even know I had that my clients would hate me because of their buying feelings.
I will now always see it as an honor when my clients come to me with their doubts about their purchase because it truly has nothing to do with me. I can’t wait to hold you in that!
What did I take away from that 6 months?
The first thing was that the evidence that the type of money coaching I wanted to offer (erotic, kinky, and pleasurable) was actually what people wanted.
I am people, I wanted it. And she gave it to me.
I hadn’t yet logged that information in the evidence bank that people were into erotic sex money magick rituals and that was super important for me.
The next thing was how to hold clients as a high value coach. The way I serve my clients has massively elevated and I am much more seasoned after learning from her.
& one last thing I learned was (there are a bajillion more): Money is just one way to challenge myself & test my edges. I'm still working with Amber at a reduced capacity but this time the edge that I'm testing is the consistency & devotion to my practice. This will be my longest commitment to a coach & at the end of our current contract we will have been together for a year!
I've found my lifelong coach in Amber. I know this sounds like one long advertisement for her coaching but I'm hoping you understand that hiring a coach, hiring me, could be the best decision you ever make & will elevate your life in so many ways.
You'll make more money, you'll uplevel your service caliber to your clients, you'll gain confidence, & if you're my client you'll have hotter sex, orgasms, & light your inner fire.
If you’re thinking “where can I sign up??”, here’s that answer ↓.
Tease Me Telegram ($499): 2 weeks of chat/voice support to wet your appetite & fill your life with pleasure & money
Jam Session ($444): 90 minutes of coaching, celebration, bitching, pleasuring, or whatever you need
UNHOLY MONEY™ ($2k/mo.): 6 months of private coaching focusing on Eros & pleasure & creating the hottest, wettest relationship with money