how to make your relationship with money RED HOT 🌶
or whatever you want it to be
Were you a cheerleader in highschool? There’s this one cheer that I’ve been thinking about lately and it goes like this. (here’s a video).
Cheer squad: “Our team is what??”
Audience: “RED HOT!”
Cheer squad: “Our team is what??”
Audience: “RED HOT!”
Cheer squad: “Our team is R-E-D with a little bit of H-O-T, oh baby! R-E-D red H-O-T red hot red hot red hot! Huh!
Sometimes I wanna shout to a crowd of people, “Our relationship with money is what??” And they would yell back, “RED HOT”. 😅
If you feel like your relationship with money is more like “totally not red hot 😑😤” then keep reading.
My relationship with money is red hot because I decided it was. Not only did I decide it was red hot, but I also started acting like it was. I started treating money like it was the star of all of my wet dreams!
I chose things that I associate with hot-fire-flames, spice, sensuality, eroticism, divinity (sacrilege) and pleasure and I attached them to money.
Things like imagery, music, clothing, movement, sex and orgasms, smells, food, beverages, and more.
Not so coincidently, these line up with the five senses, which is incredibly important to having hotter sex and regulating the nervous system in triggering circumstances.
If you’re dealing with feelings about money that fucking suck, introduce familiar, fun, and yummy things into the experience.
Imagery is a huge one for me. It’s one of those things that can so easily wiggle its way into the subconscious which makes it easier for me to integrate. This way, every time I scrolled through my camera roll, my Instagram, or my Pinterest those images lulled me into the feeling I wanted to have around money (which is erotic and pleasurable in case that wasn’t clear).
Pictures of red lips, fire, sexy femmes, curves, money…well let me just show you.
These images not only informed the vibe of my private coaching program UNHOLY MONEY™, but they also became synonymous with money for me.
Right now I’m unable to detangle them from money. Incredible, right? I’ve done so many rituals, money dates, and pleasure practices with these images present, coupled with playlists, edible delights, and scents, that I start salivating like one of Pavlov’s dogs.
The imagery, and the associations to money that I’ve made will evolve and change over time as I evolve, grow, and mature.
And just because I chose for money to be my lover, daddy, and god doesn’t mean you have to. Play, explore, and challenge yourself. Comment below what money is to you!
And if you’re looking for a container to help you turn on your turn on, whatever that means to you, join UNHOLY MONEY™ now 🥵🔥🥀